Interview with a Turkish Psychologist,
Hüseyin Kaçın,
performing reparative therapy
1- Can you describe your therapeutic approach?
Homosexuality has no religion, language, race or age. If homosexuality means atheism in one way, it means religiosity in another aspect. Gay, bisexual, deist, and atheist children are now raised in religious families. Homosexuals are now everywhere, not just in Taksim, Cihangir. The fact that you do not see it now is due to your ignorance on this subject.
Homosexuality is when the individual experiences a sexual identity crisis and the family he / she grows up in is sick. Parents cannot love their children satisfactorily if they suffer the insults and injustices they received from their parents during their childhood. Family relationships are based on appreciation and affection in return for good behavior and socially blessed achievements for the child's socialization, rather than appreciation without waiting in return.
A common discipline practiced when the child does not obey or fails to meet expectations is to withhold love. If the child is controlled with love, the result will be dramatic : he will lose his identity. Psychological problems; depression, panic attack, social phobia; drugs, alcohol, gambling, internet addictions, suicide, homosexuality stem from a lack or shortage of love.
If the family has turned into a diseased structure, we can predict any kind of disaster for the society there. In this sense, the family is the foundation of religion, civilization, culture and society.
Since familial values collapsed in Western civilization, all kinds of deviant behaviors started. Homosexuality is the most perverted aspect of human biology, psychology, and sociology. Homosexuality is the loss of sacred values and the destruction of family descent. Western civilization is in a tireless endeavor to occupy it with the lies of democracy in order to "make the world safe for democracy". The primary target is the family, which is the stronghold of our culture.
Because familial values have collapsed in the West, homosexual organizations are increasing significantly as a reflection of deviant behavior. Homosexuality is actually a religious organization beyond an ideological organization. Sharp red lines have always existed among Jews, Christians and Muslims in human history. Religions as a patriarchal order have survived under the power of fathers. New World Order: While designing new economic orders under the domination of globalization, studies of de-gendering and de-sexing humanity are also increasing. As a result, homosexuality is imposed on societies as a scientific dogma. The existence of God is discussed, religions are discussed, all kinds of cultural values are discussed, but homosexuality is imposed on societies as an unquestionable and indisputable reality. As a result of efforts to approve same-sex marriages, Judaism and Christianity in America and European countries have lost their reality and are converted to Homosexuality religion. While the West accelerates its collapse with its own hands, it is working hard to instill this collapse in Islamic geographies.
Homosexuality is a family « trouble ». Homosexuality stems from the illness of the family in which it grew up, while living individually as a sexual identity crisis. As the number of homosexuals in the society increases, is accepted and organized, it means that the family has collapsed. Homosexuality is the blessing of the mother's sovereignty instead of the father's power.
2- What is your understanding of the nature and origins of homosexuality in both men and women?
The formation of homosexual identity is a definition made in relation to oneself in the oedipal period. According to this definition, the child decided to live his impulses in the future with his own gender. Because his impulses are directed towards his own sex, he falls in love with them and sexual love is experienced with people of his own sex.
Bisexuality, on the other hand, is an attitude that tries to live sex without discrimination if it can enjoy it. It shows that the character is more infantile, that the person perceives sexual objects as an object of pleasure such as the breast..
Male homosexuality is one of the solutions to oedipal conflict. The boy chooses to get rid of his mother's attraction by directing it to his own gender, if his impulses are caused by his father or the father's lack of it. The reasons that make the mother's attraction for the child unmanageable in the oedipal setting may be:
The mother is too fond of the child and has a high tendency to prevent him from turning to the outside world. As the child feels that he cannot withdraw his impulses from his mother, his fear of his father increases and as a last resort, he directs his impulses to men. He decides to choose his own gender as the object of impulsive love. Thus, he can withdraw his impulses from his mother.
The mother is very powerful in the family system, she manages the system. The child does not transfer omnipotence from the mother to the father. Their feelings of affection to the father are high, the desired closeness with the father is only possible with impulsive investment. The fact that the mother is omnipotent causes the child to deify her and create a categorical difference between them. In this case, keeping the child's impulses in his mother will also cause him to accept his domination; then the child will lead to a masochistic solution, develops a perverse nature.
Another solution is to make a homosexual choice and make the affectionately loved father the object of impulse. Thus, the child manages to be homosexual and lovable rather than deviant.
As a homosexual personality structuring, it points to a love relationship, while a masochist indicates a relationship of domination. Homosexuality is a more developed personality organization. The father is absent. The father's lack of physical presence makes it difficult for the child to define his mother and himself. The mother and father may be separated and the child may not see the father, the father may be going on too many trips.
Is the child the closest (spouse) child of his mother? If the mother cannot clearly define the limits of her relationship with her child, it means that the child needs a father to be able to define correctly himself. The child moves to find the answer to the question of whether he is the husband of his mother or his son, directing his impulses towards the distant father or the male sex. The mother has a son who loves her own sex. Thus, in order to avoid the mother's attraction, the boy decides to be homosexual.
A Father is a very feared image. The fear of the father's anger prompts the child to seek relief from danger by quickly directing his impulses from his mother to his father. When the impulses have shifted to the father,it creates a guaranteed solution. In this way, the child decides to be a rival to his father, to be dear to him, and also takes advantage of his power as an object of impulsive love. In addition, the mother may be very overwhelmed, defeated and withdrawn in the background, often in an environment where the father is very fearful. The fact that the mother is devalued in the environment in which she lives may also cause the decrease of the attraction of the child to his mother.
When one or more of these situations are found together, cutting off the boy's penis or being thrown out of the family finds a solution by changing the object of love instead of being deviant. This solution would be to make one's own sex an object of sexual love instead of the opposite sex. Of course, a child between the ages of three and five doesn't know how being homosexual could affect his life in the future. He cannot imagine how his parents might react to this. According to him, he is shifting his impulses to his father instead of his mother, and his father is not unloved. If the mother has breasts to love, the father has a penis to replace the breast. The great interest in the penis in truly gay men is striking. Almost, a choice was made between the mother's breast and the father's penis, and the boy preferred the father's penis.
Girls' homosexual selection is not as frequent as men's. Female homosexuality is less common. In female homosexuality, we see that the father cannot create enough attraction for the girl child and the female child's impulses cannot be directed to the father and remain with the mother. In fact, the child remained in the mother's system. This may be due to the father's physical or psychological absence, or the mother's over-integration with the child. When the girl discovers that she doesn't have a penis, she needs to be complemented by her father or those with a penis. Often she has a tendency to glorify men, dismissing her own sex and self-esteem. When the contributions of the mother to the family environment and the indistinctness of the father balance these tendencies, the ground is formed for female homosexuality. The desire to make women an object of love and impulse in the future can also be created if the girl loses her mother within nine months, before completing the integration period or while transferring her omnipotence to her mother. In this case, the only relationship that has been experienced and learned is the integration relationship, and it has been lived with its own gender. Being alike makes it easy to be one. (Three Dominant Emotions from Anger to Love, Erdoğan Çalak)
So, do you see homosexuality as an ailment that is caused by a familial problem and needs to be treated?
Yes. look, let me explain as follows: For the child, the mother is a source of love and the father a source of trust. If the personality structure of the mother and father is psychologically healthy, a positive development will be observed in the psychological structure of the child. If the mother and father are individuals who have conflicts in their feelings and thoughts, disruptions occur in the psychological development of the child and a conflictual process begins. Children who cannot receive a feeling of love and trust from their parents, in their subconscious sexual urges carry sexual images towards their parents. In the confrontation of homosexual individuals in the later stages of psychotherapy processes, it is observed that distant, indifferent or, conversely, overprotective parents who appear in the therapy mirror cannot meet the necessary emotional needs for the child. The child, who tries to hold on to life with feelings of guilt and anxiety, is fighting with himself. The child always loses this war, which does not have peace in childhood, until the youth. Homosexuals, who continue to conflict with themselves intensely in the process of gaining sexual identity during adolescence, see other men as stronger than them and develop emotional investments and transfers to them. Emotional needs that were not met as a child lead to the pursuit of physical satisfaction. He considers himself as a weak soul; so he is looking for the strong chest in its own kind. His emotional transmissions to men, whom he thought to be strong as a weak man, become erotic after a certain stage.
3- How about the political climate in Turkey?
In the Friday Sermon in Hacı Bayram Mosque on April 24, 2020, President of Religious Affairs Prof. Dr. Ali Erbaş said, “O people! Islam accepts adultery as one of the greatest harams (prohibited). It condemns the Lutheran, the homosexual What is the wisdom of this? The wisdom of this is that it brings diseases along and spoils generations. Hundreds of thousands of people are exposed to the HIV virus caused by this great haram (prohibition), whose name is adultery in the Islamic literature of illegitimate and common life. Let's fight together to protect people from this kind of evil, ”he said.
Democracy quack gay lobbies "Redde Caesari quae sunt Caesaris, et quae sunt Dei Deo ..." Dr. They were quick to launch a lynch campaign against Ali Erbaş. If Ali Erbaş is left alone like Selma Aliye Kavaf in the face of these accusations, it would actually mean the collapse of the Turkish and Muslim family structure to gradually collapse.
Note : She is the former Minister of State Responsible for Women and Family Affairs from 2009 to 2011. She has stated that she opposes homosexuality, in her own words: "I believe homosexuality is a biological disorder, a disease. It needs to be treated."
Our civilization is now being taken into a great grip by law enforcement. If we do not want our civilization to be defeated in this « war », the Gender Equality discourses imposed by the Istanbul Convention should be abandoned by every level of the state. The Istanbul Convention (a Convention which is, in appearance a text who combats violence against women, but when analysed is clearly a text supporting LGBT rights and destroying the family values), as a Trojan horse, is actually a war game put into us to open the way for the rights of homosexuals to marriage and adoption, under the pretext of solving violence against women. As long as the Trojan horse stands inside us, it will continue to ask for sacrifice from the world of politics, science, thought, art, religion, etc. without getting tired. In the post-coronavirus era, politics is obliged to destroy this Trojan horse. Or homosexuality debate in Turkey's agenda will never be lacking.
In the past, children were entrusted to schools by their families saying "his flesh is mine, his blood is yours » (Meaning : I'm leaving my child to you and trust you). The boys played ball in the school gardens, and the girls jumped rope. They would learn to grow up dreamy. They were worried about being a great man. Their fathers even sold their jackets for their children to allow them to study. In recent times, families who say "his flesh is mine, his blood is mine" (Meaning : I'm leaving you my child, but you don't have any right on him/her, whatever he does, don't blame him/her) have surrounded education. Children are getting smaller as they grow up with their immunity in schools. Boys no longer play ball and girls stop jumping rope.
As a result of the Gender Equality pressures, it is desired to raise boys who are not behaving like boys, and girls who are not like girls. If the Gender Equality work continues without slowing down, it will destroy our family dynamics and make mothers who are not like mothers ; and fathers who are not like fathers.
Homosexuality is not limited to the individual, but it is the sickness of the family in which the person was born and raised. In summary, homosexuality is a family disease. Instead of insulting homosexuals as « queers », we should actually question their parents whose lack love and interest in their child's growth resulted in his homosexuality. The homosexual is a child who succumbed to the emotional deprivation in a diseased family structure during his childhood. The homosexual is a person who will tirelessly try to take the revenge of this defeat in his family from the society he is excluded with the following words "like a girl, ball, fag/queer". He will constantly strive for erotic satisfaction of his body in order to compensate for the wounds he inflicted on his soul by the emotional deprivations he was deprived of as a child. Homosexuality is an endless sex addiction in this sense, as there is never a permanent and monogamous love in homosexual relationships.
4- Can we find out if there is resistance or support against such a study?
Clergy's attitude towards homosexuality is incomplete and inadequate.
Suggesting patience to a person with a homosexual orientation and giving advice such as « if you have these feelings, continue your life without sinning, if you are not interested in women, be patient without getting married, and you will get their reward in heaven » reinforces the concept of "religious homosexuals". The religious perspective can only have a protective effect in the homosexual development process, but never lead to a healing process. If the individual with homosexual tendencies or life is uncomfortable with this situation, the solution is to start a therapy meeting with a psychologist experienced in homosexual treatment.
5- Can you explain where the support or resistance comes from?
There is no work or effort by religious communities, associations and non-governmental organizations to prevent or treat homosexuality. It is impossible and unthinkable to make a program for the treatment of homosexuality in the media and communication sector, whether in conservative or in secular channels.
Examples of resistance can be found in online dictionaries like Eksisozluk as far as my person is concerned.
They even defend the idea that a therapist who defends « homosexual therapy » needs a therapy.
https://eksisozluk.com/huseyin-kacin--2333488?p=1 https://ayisozluk.com/huseyin-kacin.html 
